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1. Mencontohkan mengawini anak ingusan berusia 6 th dan menidurinya pada usia 9 th.
Sahih Bukhari. Vol 7, Book 62. Wedlock,
Marriage (Nikaah). Hadith 065.
Narrated By 'Aisha:
That the Prophet
married her when she was
six years old and he consummated his
marriage when she was
nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for
nine years (i.e. till his death)."
Sahih Muslim. Book 8. Marriage. Hadith 3310.
'Aisha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him)
married me when
I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.
2. Menyatakan bahwa "
legitnya" Aisha yang berumur 9 th secara fisik, seperti tharid (hidangan roti dan daging), tidak ada bandingannya.
Sahih Bukhari. Volume 4, Book 55, Number 623:
Narrated Abu Musa:
Allah's Apostle said, "Many amongst men reached (the level of) perfection but none amongst the women reached this level except Asia, Pharaoh's wife, and Mary, the daughter of 'Imran. And no doubt,
the superiority of 'Aisha to other women is like the superiority of Tharid (i.e. a meat and bread dish) to other meals."
3. Menganjurkan untuk mengawini anak2 gadis perawan yang masih ingusan sehingga bisa meraba2 mereka dan bermain2 dengan mereka.
Sahih Bukhari. Vol 7, Book 62. Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). Hadith 017.
Narrated By Jabir bin 'Abdullah :
When I got
married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron.' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the
virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you
marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'
Menurut hadist-hadis SAHIH berikut ini, Aisah dinikahi Muhammad pada usia 6 tahun dan ditiduri/digauli pada usia 9 th.
Sunan Abu Dawud, Vol. 2, #2116:
"Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah
married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had
intercourse with me when I was
9 years old."
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... ri/062.sbt. html#007.062.064
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet
married her when she was
six years old and he consummated his
marriage when she was
nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... 07.062.065
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet
married her when she was six years old and he consummated his
marriage when she was
nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for
nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... ri/062.sbt. html#007.062.088 Narrated 'Ursa: The Prophet wrote the (
marriage contract) with 'Aisha while she was six years old and
consummated his marriage with her while she was
nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).
Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 236
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... ri/058.sbt. html#005.058.236
Narrated Hisham's father:
Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he
married 'Aisha when she was a girl of
six years of age, and he consumed (sic –
consummated) that
marriage when she was
nine years old.
Apakah "consummated the marriage" berarti melakukan hubungan intim? Jawabnya YA.
http://www.exmuslim.com/com/evidence.htm
Argumentasi dari Muslim bahwa pada usia 9 th Aisha sudah haid juga tidak tepat karena menurut hadist-hadist yang sahih pada usia tsb Aisha masih belum haid.
Dari sumber hadist yang sahih, kita bisa melihat bahwa pada usia 9 th saat digauli, Aisha masih belum akil baliq. Bahkan dari hadis2 tsb pada usia sekitar 14-15 saat perang Khaybar,
Aisha masih belum haid karena masih bermain dengan boneka. Dalam aturan hukum Islam yang ketat pada jaman Nabi, bermain boneka hanya diperbolehkan bagi anak2 kecil yang belum akil baliq. Kesimpulannya, Aisha belum akil baliq pada usia 9 th saat digauli, bahkan pada usia 14-15 pun saat perang Khaybar dia belum haid.
Sunan Abu Dawud, Vol. 2, #2116:
"Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah
married me when I was
seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had
intercourse with me when I was 9 years old."
Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... ri/073.sbt. html#008.073.151
Narrated 'Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me.
(The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)
Sunan Abu Dawud. Book 36. General Behavior. Hadith 4914.
Narrated By 'Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin : When the Apostle of Allah (pbuh) arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar (the narrator is doubtful), the draught raised an end of a curtain which was hung in front of her store-room, revealing some dolls which belonged to her.
He asked: What is this? She replied: My dolls. Among them he saw a horse with wings made of rags, and asked: What is this I see among them? She replied: A horse. He asked: What is this that it has on it? She replied: Two wings. He asked: A horse with two wings? She replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? She said: Thereupon the Apostle of Allah (pbuh) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth.
Alasan bahwa Muhammad mengawini Aisha adalah untuk memperkuat tali persaudaraan dengan "suadara angkatnya" Abu Bakr juga tidak valid karena Abu Bakar jelas keberatan karena mereka adalah saudara angkat. Tetapi Muhammad tetap memaksa dan mengatakan tidak menjadi masalah padahal dia pernah menolak tawaran dari Hamza, saudara angkatnya juga, untuk menikasih puterinya:
Menurut hadist berikut Abu Bakr keberatan saat Muhammad melamar Aisah.
Sahih Bukhari. Volume 7. Book 62. No. 18
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamental ... ri/062.sbt. html#007.062.018
Narrated 'Ursa:
The Prophet asked Abu Bakr for 'Aisha's hand in
marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother." The Prophet said, "You are my brother in Allah's religion and His Book, but she (Aisha) is lawful for me to marry."
Abu Bakr sebenarnya tidak salah karena dalam tradisi bangsa Arab persaudaran walaupun saudara angkat sama artinya dengan saudara kandung. Demikian juga dengan anak angkat.
Adalah tabu mengawini anak saudara angkat atau isteri anak angkat menurut moral bangsa2 Arab pada waktu itu.
Muhammad sendiri pun menolak saat di tawarin untuk menikah dengan anak Hamza (yang juga adalah saudara angkat spt halnya Abu Bakr) dengan alasan bahwa anak Hamza adalah
keponakan angkatnya (seperti halnya Aisha juga adalah keponakannya) !
