hadits ini sengaja baru gue munculin biar kelihatan betapa ngoto kalian tak berdasar sama sekali ...saya kalkulasi ah .... kekalahan debat kalian :
1. Peristiwa terjadi pada masa awal hijrah artinya Islam belum diajarkan sempurna pada kaum Ansar maka segala tindakan ansar semata-mata datang dari tradisi pre islamic mereka
2. Nabi tdk pernah menganjurkan dan mengajarkan berbagi istri.
3. Abdurahman tdk pernah menerima penawaran berbagi istri Sad bin Arrabi' shg praktis peristiwa berbagi istri tdk pernah terjadi oleh karenanya tdk ada fatwa dari Nabi ttg hal ini.
4. Abdurrahman pergi ke pasar bukan shopping tapi berbisnis
5. Wanita Ansar yg dinikahi abdurahaman bukanlah istri Sad bin ArRabi karena Abdurrahaman sudah menolaknya
he he ke 5 poin mereka bantah dng sengit namun semuanya terjawab oleh hadits yg bungsu ini
- SAHIH BUKHARI Volumn 003, Book 034, Hadith Number 264.
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Narated By Ibrahim bin Sad from his father from his grand-father : Abdur Rahman bin Auf said, "When we came to Medina as emigrants, Allah's Apostle established a bond of brotherhood between me and Sad bin Ar-Rabi'. Sad bin Ar-Rabi' said (to me), 'I am the richest among the Ansar, so I will give you half of my wealth and you may look at my two wives and whichever of the two you may choose I will divorce her, and when she has completed the prescribed period (before marriage) you may marry her.' Abdur-Rahman replied, "I am not in need of all that. Is there any market-place where trade is practiced?' He replied, "The market of Qainuqa." Abdur-Rahman went to that market the following day and brought some dried butter-milk (yogurt) and butter, and then he continued going there regularly. Few days later, 'AbdurRahman came having traces of yellow (scent) on his body. Allah's Apostle asked him whether he had got married. He replied in the affirmative. The Prophet said, 'Whom have you married?' He replied, 'A woman from the Ansar.' Then the Prophet asked, 'How much did you pay her?' He replied, '(I gave her) a gold piece equal in weigh to a date stone (or a date stone of gold)! The Prophet said, 'Give a Walima (wedding banquet) even if with one sheep.'"